“Blessed is he who has regard for the weak; the Lord delivers him in times of trouble.” Psalm 41:1, NIV
What if you were granted the ability to see through another person’s eyes? What do you think you would see? Do you think that you would see that the well-to-do couple down the street is completely happy or would you see that they are stressed out because they are living above their means? Do you think you would see the little boy that has been causing trouble on the block is being told by his parents that they wish he was never born and that he will never amount to anything?
Do you think that you would see your boss gleefully finding ways to make your life difficult or instead would you see that his boss is threatening to fire him if he does not perform? Do you think that you would see that the coworker who couldn’t be bothered to say good morning to you, weeping in her car because she found out that the lump in her breast is cancer? Do you think you would see that the coworker in everyone’s business is so lonely that she is contemplating suicide?
Maybe you could see the lady that cut you off on the way home was running away from an abusive husband? Could you see that the cashier that was rude to you just buried her eleven year old son and she couldn’t afford to take time off work to properly grieve? Could you see your friend who refuses to return your calls was raped a week ago and she’s ashamed to tell you?
If you could see these things, would that change the way you felt about them? Would you still be angry and judgmental or would you pray for them? Would this be the only way you could feel compassion for them? Well, we don’t have the power to see everything that is going on in someone’s life, nor can we see what people are thinking. We all have emotional scars that we’ve caused each other and ourselves. God still expects us to have compassion for each other just as He has compassion for us. We all need to be shown love, even if we don’t show it.
As difficult as it is, before you become angry or start to complain about someone, try to take a step back and consider that maybe something deeper that you can’t see is going on with that person. Show compassion. Pray for those who hurt you because you never know what that person maybe going through.
“Jesus went through all the towns and villages, teaching in their synagogues, preaching the good news of the kingdom and healing every disease and sickness. When he saw the crowds, he had compassion on them because they were harassed and helpless; like sheep without a shepherd.” Matthew 9:35-36, NIV
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Love this one Tammy. One never knows what the other person is going through or has just gone through or will have to endure. My new focus is, GOD died for (me) despite who (I am) , forgave me despite and still continues to LOVE. Who am I to judge and not LOVE someone because of what they did to me. Isaiah 52:12 helps me to remember that despite others, things, life, etc, GOD has my back at all times, through anything. Be blessed all and thanks Tammy for your blog!
I enjoy reading your blog so much. It is always an inspiration to me. I’ll remember to pray for those who have hurt me and not judge them. Keep up the writing, Tam!
This is awesome. I have so much compassion for people it’s unreal. If someone hurting, I’m hurting. If someone love one pass I feel their pain. Even people that don’t like me. I just have the love of Christ for everyone.
What a wonderful post Tammy. We really have no idea what’s happening in people’s lives, do we? Yet, we’re so quick to judge and make people wrong. Everyone has a story.